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    10/2/2006

    女人的独立

    看一期杨澜主持的“天下女人”节目,采访的是王小丫。小丫病愈后确实胖了点,不过仍然十分美丽~
    小丫有些话说得很有道理。
    当杨澜问他是否有的时候需要有个人来倾听呢?小丫回答的是(大体意思)我们需要一个人来倾听,觉得好像有人听就有人帮我们解决了这个问题,其实不然,我们在诉说的过程其实就是自己在梳理的过程。不管遇到了什么烦心事有了什么疙瘩,最终还是需要我们自己去解决自己去解开,别人的倾听,别人的劝解再有道理,如果自己想不开还是没有用。
    罗曼罗兰曾说过句话:人的一生其实就是内心生活。
    我说不出我心里的感觉,不过听了这期节目确实挺有感触。我这个人是个依赖性很强的人,其实说白了,就是个很懒的人,懒得动脑子自己解决棘手的事,懒得去梳理自己的心理,呵呵~
    别人再强,也顶替不了你自己,凡事还是要多靠自己!

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    好久么跟新了嘛!  
    July 30
    harper xiewrote:
    新年好啊新年好
     
    Mar. 2
    cocoだwrote:
    猫。新年快乐!
    越来越漂亮。
    Feb. 23
    harper xiewrote:
    王小Y。。。化妆打很厚的粉的。。。
     
    男人的角度,她不能算那个哈。。
    Feb. 14
    Jim Chanwrote:
    Hello, I am Jim from Canada, nice to meet you^^ 很高興認識妳..很漂亮的空間
    Jan. 23
    刚 李wrote:
    有一个聪明的男孩,有一天妈妈带著他到杂货店去买东西,老板看到这个可爱的小孩,就打开一罐糖果,要小男孩自己拿一把糖果。但是这个男孩却没有任何的动作。几次的邀请之後,老板亲自抓了一大把糖果放进他的口袋中。回到家中,母亲很好奇的问小男孩,为什没有自己去抓糖果而要老板抓呢?小男孩回答得很妙:「因为我的手比较小呀!而老板的手比较大,所以他拿的一定比我拿的多很多!」
      

      默想:这是一个聪明的孩子,他知道自己的有限,而更重要的,他也明白别人比自己强。

      凡事不只靠自己的力量,学会适时的依靠他人,是一种谦卑,更是一种聪明。
    Nov. 12
    maple Aaronwrote:
    看我Space,点你名字了,我也不想,被人搞得,多包涵了。
    Nov. 1

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